Why Is It Hard To Trust People?
Why Is It Hard to Trust People?
By Pastor Alexander L. Redd
May 9, 2024
"He did not need any testimony about mankind, for he knew what was in each person." (John 2:25).
Jesus didn't need anyone to tell him about human nature or other people's thoughts because he knew how deceitful people can be. They befriend you, especially when things are going well for you. It is difficult to trust people because they may praise you one day and say bad things about you the next day if you can't meet their needs. They are hypocrites!
It helps to never take trust for granted because it is a precious commodity. Jesus, being wise and divine, understood the complexities of human nature and the significance of trust as a valuable asset. Knowing who to rely on in your relationships with others can be difficult.
In John 2:25, we can see that Jesus knew what was in each person and did not depend on anybody to validate who he was and his work. We often do things to make people like us so that we can feel good about ourselves and validate our worth. This verse powerfully cautions us of the difficulties and consequences of trusting people and presents practical ways to discern authentic relationships. How do you know a person is genuine and trustworthy?
Trusting others is a beautiful way to show love and vulnerability, but it comes with risks. People are imperfect, and their actions may not always align with their words. We often expect others to have the same desires and hopes as we do.
However, when our expectations are not met, this can lead to disappointment and heartbreak. We may experience deceit, betrayal, or broken promises that can destroy our trust and make us question the authenticity of all relationships.
Fortunately, Jesus has given us the tools to trust and discern wisely. With His perfect wisdom as your guide, you can approach this important aspect of your life confidently and clearly. By adhering to His teachings and following His example, you can make well-informed decisions that align with your values and lead to a fulfilling life. He understands the depths of your heart and can teach you how to discern genuine relationships.
First, seek guidance from the Holy Spirit. The Spirit can provide you with discernment and wisdom beyond your own understanding. Through prayer and meditation of Scripture, you can invite the Spirit to guide your heart and mind, helping you identify trustworthy and sincere people. The Holy Spirit illuminates the truth and exposes hidden motives, enabling you to see beyond the surface.
Second, observe the fruit of a person's character. Jesus said, "By their fruit, you will recognize them" (Matthew 7:20). Love, kindness, humility, and integrity often characterize genuine relationships. Please pay attention to how someone treats others, responds in challenging situations, and whether their actions align with their words. Consistency in character and behavior is a powerful indicator of trustworthiness.
Additionally, seek counsel from wise and mature believers. Surrounding yourself with godly individuals with a discerning spirit can provide valuable insights and perspectives. They can offer guidance based on their experiences and knowledge of the Word of God. Proverbs 15:22 says, "Plans fail for lack of counsel, but with many advisers, they succeed."
Finally, your ultimate trust should be placed in God. People may fail you, but God's faithfulness is steady and strong. He is the only one who knows the depths of your heart and can provide you with true security. When you trust in Him, He can guide you in forming healthy and genuine relationships.
As you encounter the intricacies of trust, rely on Jesus' teachings and follow his example. Although trusting people can be challenging, it is not impossible. You can discern genuine relationships through the guidance of the Holy Spirit, observation of character, seeking wise counsel, and placing your ultimate trust in God. Remember, Jesus knew what was in each person, and with His help, you, too, can understand the problems of human relationships.
By Pastor Alexander L. Redd
May 9, 2024
"He did not need any testimony about mankind, for he knew what was in each person." (John 2:25).
Jesus didn't need anyone to tell him about human nature or other people's thoughts because he knew how deceitful people can be. They befriend you, especially when things are going well for you. It is difficult to trust people because they may praise you one day and say bad things about you the next day if you can't meet their needs. They are hypocrites!
It helps to never take trust for granted because it is a precious commodity. Jesus, being wise and divine, understood the complexities of human nature and the significance of trust as a valuable asset. Knowing who to rely on in your relationships with others can be difficult.
In John 2:25, we can see that Jesus knew what was in each person and did not depend on anybody to validate who he was and his work. We often do things to make people like us so that we can feel good about ourselves and validate our worth. This verse powerfully cautions us of the difficulties and consequences of trusting people and presents practical ways to discern authentic relationships. How do you know a person is genuine and trustworthy?
Trusting others is a beautiful way to show love and vulnerability, but it comes with risks. People are imperfect, and their actions may not always align with their words. We often expect others to have the same desires and hopes as we do.
However, when our expectations are not met, this can lead to disappointment and heartbreak. We may experience deceit, betrayal, or broken promises that can destroy our trust and make us question the authenticity of all relationships.
Fortunately, Jesus has given us the tools to trust and discern wisely. With His perfect wisdom as your guide, you can approach this important aspect of your life confidently and clearly. By adhering to His teachings and following His example, you can make well-informed decisions that align with your values and lead to a fulfilling life. He understands the depths of your heart and can teach you how to discern genuine relationships.
First, seek guidance from the Holy Spirit. The Spirit can provide you with discernment and wisdom beyond your own understanding. Through prayer and meditation of Scripture, you can invite the Spirit to guide your heart and mind, helping you identify trustworthy and sincere people. The Holy Spirit illuminates the truth and exposes hidden motives, enabling you to see beyond the surface.
Second, observe the fruit of a person's character. Jesus said, "By their fruit, you will recognize them" (Matthew 7:20). Love, kindness, humility, and integrity often characterize genuine relationships. Please pay attention to how someone treats others, responds in challenging situations, and whether their actions align with their words. Consistency in character and behavior is a powerful indicator of trustworthiness.
Additionally, seek counsel from wise and mature believers. Surrounding yourself with godly individuals with a discerning spirit can provide valuable insights and perspectives. They can offer guidance based on their experiences and knowledge of the Word of God. Proverbs 15:22 says, "Plans fail for lack of counsel, but with many advisers, they succeed."
Finally, your ultimate trust should be placed in God. People may fail you, but God's faithfulness is steady and strong. He is the only one who knows the depths of your heart and can provide you with true security. When you trust in Him, He can guide you in forming healthy and genuine relationships.
As you encounter the intricacies of trust, rely on Jesus' teachings and follow his example. Although trusting people can be challenging, it is not impossible. You can discern genuine relationships through the guidance of the Holy Spirit, observation of character, seeking wise counsel, and placing your ultimate trust in God. Remember, Jesus knew what was in each person, and with His help, you, too, can understand the problems of human relationships.
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